How to Handle Hurting Words

–September of 2009

How to Handle Hurting Words

Read II Samuel 16:5-14 & 19:15-23

The humiliation of David’s temporary exile in the face of Absalom’s anarchy had to be one of the lowest moments of his long reign.  But insult was added to injury when, as he fled Jerusalem, a man named Shimei followed him shouting curses.  The accusation was that David was getting what he deserved because he was a murderous man – guilty of the “blood of the house of Saul.”

Shimei couldn’t possibly have spoken more unjust and hurtful words. If David was innocent of anything it was the blood of Saul.  He had spent years in exile to keep Saul from killing him. He had refused to speak evil of Saul, or take advantage of Saul’s fractious kingdom, or even lay a hand on Saul even though the Lord delivered Saul into David’s hand again and again.  If anything in the world was untrue, this charge was untrue!

Why Shimei’s Criticism?

The Bible tells us that Shimei was of the house of Saul.  So when Saul’s kingdom ended it brought about the demise of all the influence, power and financial advantage Saul’s relatives had enjoyed for years. Shimei just couldn’t let it go and was still carrying the old family grudge.  David’s misfortune gave Shimei the opportunity to vent all those years of stored-up malice. The timing and boldness of Shimei’s remarks were fueled by three things: first, he thought he could verbally assault David safely since David was fleeing for his own life; second, he knew the taunt about Saul would hurt David the most at this particular moment; and third, he believed that God was now on his side.  Shimei was sure that David was fleeing for his life because God has deposed him!

David’s Response

David refused to say anything to Shimei!  He did, though, speak words of restraint to his inner circle who wanted to remove Shimei’s head.  David’s silence toward Shimei and his response to his friends offers some valuable insight on how we should respond to hurting words or unfair accusations.

1. Develop a tough hide.  One can’t have a china-doll fragility about every little thing someone says (Eccl. 7:21-22).  One of the benchmarks of spiritual maturity is that we have gained enough confidence of who we are in Christ and of His unwavering love for us that the actions and words of others no longer have the power to devastate us. Disappoint and hurt? Yes!  Devastate? No!

2. Keep things in perspective.  David realized that Shimei’s cursing was nothing in comparison to the big issues surrounding Absalom’s treason. Unfair criticism from a sour old man can look fairly small in light of some of life’s more serious issues.

3. Learn to hold your tongue.  Not every criticism deserves an immediate answer.  In most cases, a hasty response to criticism causes one more distress than the actual criticism itself (Prov. 15:28, 26:4 and 29:11). Saint Augustine once prayed, “O Lord, deliver me from this lust of always vindicating myself.”  Neither is it necessary to say something even if you feel your words can fix the other person. One must carefully avoid a false sense of responsibility to fix someone else’s problem.  God is far better equipped to intervene and do the fixing.

4. Try to understand where the person is coming from.  Shimei was a descendant of Saul.   Saul’s loss of the throne brought significant loss to all his relatives including Shimei.  Even though David was totally innocent of any wrongdoing toward Saul or his family, Shimei still focused his anger on David because he was a visible reminder of what Saul’s descendants used to have and had no more.

5.  See God’s hand behind it.  David told his followers that Shimei’s cursing may well be from the Lord.  He was truly innocent of the blood of Saul, but he was not innocent of the blood of Uriah.  David’s keen sense of his own failures made him very open to God’s using whatever means necessary to make him a better man (Rom. 8:28).

6. Exercise forgiveness and move on. As the story makes clear, David returned to Jerusalem victorious. Shimei met David’s retinue with great humility and an abundance of apologies.  Shimei expected and deserved death but was given grace and forgiveness (Eph. 4:32).

There is one sure thing about life, and that is that sooner or later someone will offend you.  How one handles these offenses has a profound impact on one’s own spiritual advancement and the progress of those around them.  Too often Christians become stuck in a place of woundedness and become dysfunctional as they relive the experience over and over again.  David teaches us to deal with it and move on!  Paul would tell us to rejoice in such a trial because it gives us opportunity to learn many things about ourselves as well as to experience the grace of God.

My ninth-grade English teacher, Miss Splawn, was often frustrated by a boy in our class who talked incessantly. In despair she would say aloud to the whole class, “I can’t stop him!  I can’t kill him! I guess I’ll just have to let him talk on!”  We can’t stop the hurting remarks that people are going to make about us, nor can we “take off the head” of everybody who unleashes a volley of criticism at us.  But we can hold our tongue, learn the lessons that are there for us and ultimately exercise the liberating power of forgiveness!

The Educated Christian

–Summer of 2009

The Educated Christian

I hear the question every year.  “My son or daughter has been accepted into a big state university with a full scholarship how can I afford not to take it?”  Even while they ask it, their face gives away their fears of the secular peer pressure, liberal teaching, and immoral influences that are sure to impact their child.  But the institutional prestige, the cost savings and the career possibilities are just too alluring so the majority of Christian parents will make a decision that will cause 52% of their Christian young people to loose their faith forever!

The average state university faculty will be a colorful mix of lesbians, evolutionists, pro-abortionist and humanistic teachers who have a high tolerance for anything but fundamental Christianity and will use their professorial trust and well-honed arguments to effectively brainwash the minds of teenagers who are not fully mature – spiritually or mentally.

But isn’t education neutral?  No!  Institutions and educators have a philosophy that drives what they do and teach.  Secular humanism that extols the goodness of man and denies the existence of God is the driving force behind most state and private universities.  Christian colleges have an educational philosophy that drives what they do and teach as well. It too is not neutral. They seek to develop in their students a deep love for God and a desire to serve others with an education that has a strong Biblical worldview.

God’s Bible School and College has always had an educational philosophy that was distinctly Christian.  A few years ago, Dr. Ken Farmer and I were sitting before the Higher Learning Commission answering questions about God’s Bible School and College. They asked us this question. “How would you define an educated person?”  A thoughtful response to that has now become how God’s Bible School and College views an Educated Christian.  The full statement is as follows:

An educated Christian is a faithful servant whose knowledge, values and skills center in. . . .

 1. Loving God: Knowledgeably, personally loves God and His truth, manifestingthis love by living according to biblical precept.

This attribute may be made apparent in the following ways. The educated Christian:

  • Understands and loves the Bible, applying it by allowing it to shape his/her   worldview;
  •  Demonstrates ability to talk intelligently about God and His working in his/her life;
  • Understands loving God, applying this understanding in all relational interactions;
  • Possesses a substantive grasp of orthodox theology.

 2. Loving Others: Lives out love for God in loving others, manifesting this love in compassionate service.

This attribute may be made apparent in the following ways. The educated Christian:

  • Understands how to love others and contribute to their lives;
  • Develops and uses spiritual gifts, especially in discipling and mentoring others;
  • Participates in Christian service, indicating a biblical ministry philosophy and passion;
  • Engages his/her community through civic involvement;
  • Understands interpersonal relationship skills, demonstrating this understanding through mature, gracious and professional interaction with others;
  • Understands the importance of cooperation and works well with others.

 3. Loving Learning: From a basic general knowledge and through a Christian worldview, eagerly acquires, applies, and communicates knowledge.

 This attribute may be made apparent in the following ways. The educated Christian:

  •  Demonstrates critical, logical thinking ability, including the ability to differentiate between uncompromisable absolutes and peripheral matters;
  • Possesses a biblical worldview and underlies and informs engagement with knowledge;
  • Possesses a broad-based general knowledge, including understanding of and appreciation for the fine arts, literature, history, science, math, and current events;
  • Possesses a deeper knowledge in his/her selected field of study;
  • Communicates effectively in speech and writing;
  • Seeks knowledge eagerly, committed to a lifelong pursuit of personal development.

 Pastors and parents are the most influential people in advising young men and women on the college they should attend.  It is my prayer that neither group will take that job lightly.  The choice that is made may well determine not only their future vocation but their eternal destiny!

Consecration

–May of 2009

Consecration

“You are a People Holy to the Lord!” (Deuteronomy 7:6)

All the great Christian truths are prefigured in the Old Testament; they are announced ahead of time and prepared for through symbols and prophecies.  Easter is prefigured in the slaying of the paschal lamb, baptism in circumcision, the Eucharist in the manna and so on.          The same is true of consecration.  Consecration is the devoting or setting apart of anything or anyone to the worship or service of God. The race of Abraham, the nation of Israel and the tribe of Levi were thus consecrated.  The Tabernacle and later the Temple were both consecrated to God.  The Hebrews devoted their fields and cattle and sometimes the spoils of war to the Lord.  According to the Mosaic Law the first-born both of man and beast were consecrated to God.

When anything was thus consecrated to God it became His special possession and was designated as “holy to the Lord.”  When this designation involved places or things it carried with it certain restrictions upon their use. For instance, the Temple and all of its vessels and furnishings were set apart to be used exclusively for the worship of God.  Any other use or purpose would defile them.  When this consecration involved people, such as the nation of Israel, it carried significant behavioral and relational obligations.  To be the special possession of a Holy God required the children of Israel to love the Lord their God with all their heart and with all their soul and with all their strength and to “fear the Lord their God, to walk in all His ways, to love Him, to serve the Lord their God with all their heart and with all their soul” (Deut. 6:5, 10:12).   The book of Leviticus sets out the behavioral consequences of being God’s exclusive people in one oft repeated phrase, “And ye shall be holy unto me: for I the LORD am holy, and have severed you from other people, that ye should be mine.” (Lev. 20:26)  This call to holiness is repeated approximately fourteen times followed by specific ways holy people are to behave.

The New Testament builds upon the teaching of the Old Testament to explain both the privileges and the responsibilities of being consecrated to the Lord.  Peter uses God’s special relationship with Israel to illustrate that the Church is “a chosen race, a royal  priesthood , a holy nation, a people for God’s own procession , so that you may proclaim the excellencies of Him who has called you out of darkness into His marvelous light;” (I Peter 2:29).   Paul uses what we learned about the Temple to teach us that we “are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people” (II Cor. 6:16).

Though the New Testament uses symbolism, it moves beyond the symbolic to make the act of consecration very personal and real!   The Apostle Paul does this in his appeal to the Roman Christians.  He wrote, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will” (Romans 12:1-2).

This is an unconditional surrender to God of my total self and of God’s complete possession of that self for His own perfect will.  It is surrender so real and so radical that Paul likens it to a “living sacrifice.”  What does it really involve and mean?

It means a total surrender of my body to God.

The word “body” here means all of one’s life, since human life is lived in the body.  Before we came to Christ, we used our body to “fulfill the lust of the flesh.” But now, as a Christian, our body is used for His glory.  Our body is “the temple of the Holy Spirit . . . and we are not our own” (I Cor.6:19). Because of this we seek to “glorify God in our body, and in our spirit, which are Gods” (I Cor. 6:20).

It means a total surrender of my mind to God.

The mind is at the center of all my behavior.  My body doesn’t know right from wrong, but my mind does.   A mind transformed by the renewing of the Holy Spirit and the enlightenment of Holy Scripture will resist the values, goals and activities of the world even though it exerts steady pressure from without to conform us to its way of thinking and acting. If the world can get me to think like it thinks, then it can get me to behave like it behaves.  It has become so invasive that it now follows us into our homes and assails us with a world view that is diametrically opposed to God’s Word.  It lures us to look at life through the lens of “the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life” (I Jn 2:16).  But a mind that is totally surrendered, Spirit renewed and Biblically armed, will be able to “keep my body under, and bring it into subjection” to Christ.

It means a total surrender of my will to God.

The mind controls the body but the will controls the mind. So it is all important that my will is surrendered to His will.  The key to true inner strength and spiritual power lies in a totally surrendered will to the complete will of God. Oswald Chambers said it succinctly when he declared that “to be our utmost for His Highest is not a matter of wrestling, debating or reasoning, but of surrender.”

There is a very simple prayer, first prayed by baseball great Bobby Richardson, that I want each one who has read this article to pray before you lay this paper aside.  It would be very beneficial to continue to pray on a regular basis.  This is the prayer: “Dear God, Your will—nothing more, nothing less, and nothing else. Amen.”  Herein is both the heart and joy of consecration!

Glorying in the Cross

–April 0f 2009

Glorying in the Cross

“As many as desire to make a fair show in the flesh, they constrain you to be circumcised; only lest they should suffer persecution for the cross of Christ. For neither they themselves who are circumcised keep the law; but desire to have you circumcised, that they may glory in your flesh.  But God forbid that I should glory, save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world is crucified unto me, and I unto the world.  For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision, but a new creature. And as many as walk according to this rule, peace be on them, and mercy, and upon the Israel of God. From henceforth let no man trouble me: for I bear in my body the marks of the Lord Jesus.” (Galatians 6:12-17)

The primary struggle in the book of Galatians is between salvation by rule-keeping and salvation by grace.  But there is another subtle problem occurring right under the surface – the carnal desire to glory in the visible signs and trappings of religion.

The Judaizers were trying to turn the Galatian Christians back to the works of the Mosaic law.  Paul’s opponents feared that his talk about salvation by grace alone and freedom from the works of the law was making religion too easy.  They worried that if rule-keeping and the outward signs of righteousness were abandoned the Church would fall apart. They needed their rules and regulations, especially those who had a powerful sense of identity like circumcision.  They needed a “mark in the flesh” as their badge of authenticity and spirituality!  It gave them something to measure, something to achieve, something to take pride in!

Paul utterly rejects their teaching.  Their doctrine was not just a harmless addition to the Christian faith, but a complete undermining of the gospel. Salvation by the law had saved no one.  It never would or could.  From his own experience, Paul knew that those who attempt to be saved by rule-keeping live in bondage, depend on the flesh, live for self and seek the praise of men.  Rule-keeping makes valiant attempts to change the old nature and make it obey the law of God but it ultimately fails.  It succeeds only in stoking the fires of fleshly pride.

The gospel delivered to Paul and declared by him was salvation by grace through the inner working of the Holy Spirit. Its obedience is not motivated by law but by love!  To Paul religion was not a matter of satisfying the claims of the law, but satisfying the obligations of love – the love of God revealed in Christ by His death on the cross.  Hence, man has nothing he can glory in save the cross of Christ.

Man has a long history of trying to earn favor with God by what he does, while at the same time trumpeting his actions before his peers.  We don’t have Pharisees standing on street corners praying, or going around looking gaunt from days of fasting, or sounding trumpets when they write big checks for the offering, but subtle boasting of spiritual activity can happen in a thousand other ways.  Complicating all of this is the fact that at the very core of man’s sinful nature is the desire to keep his thumb on or have control of his own salvation. This is why “works salvation” still has so many adherents.  Paul saw this for what it was – not the freedom of grace as revealed in the gospel but the enslavement of sinful idolatry as seen in the works of flesh.  If anyone could easily have fallen into this trap it would have been Paul.   He could have boasted of his Jewish heritage, his holy zeal and his many good works.  He could have been puffed up by the revelations given to him directly from God.  He could have gloried in the scars on his body from being whipped five times with thirty-nine lashes, or being beaten three times with rods, or stoned and left for dead. But instead he cries, “God forbid that I should glory save in the cross of Christ Jesus my Lord!”

It is very difficult not to boast of our spiritual exploits in subtle ways. It is also very difficult not to rest on them for merit.  The only cure is to live in utter dependence upon saving grace, to walk moment by moment in the power of His Spirit and to experience such a radical death to our old man that we can say, “I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.”

Developing a Theology of Change

–March 0f 2009

Developing a Theology of Change

Continual change is the reality of our time.  Globalism and consumer demands have forced business to “change or die.”  Social norms keep shifting.  Even our most time-honored institutions have to be innovative at a breath-taking pace to remain relevant to the world they seek to serve.  Not only are we changing but the rate at which we are changing continues to accelerate.   More change took place in the latter half of the twentieth century than has occurred since the founding of our nation.  The twenty-first century has already ushered in major transformations as post-modernism places its world-view on every aspect of the emerging culture.

The church is not an isolated island from the rest of society and by its very nature it cannot be. It too is changing. As a matter of fact, change is not new to the church.  One only has to read the book of Acts and subsequent church history to see the church changing to meet the challenges of its day.  For those of us within the holiness tradition, John Wesley and the early Methodists serve as an example of innovation at its best.  After Wesley’s own spiritual awakening, he realized that the vast majority of unsaved souls refused to enter the doors of an Anglican Church.  Unwilling that people should perish in their sins he took the gospel message to the coal mines and open fields of England.  Despite bitter opposition from the clergy, Wesley became an open air preacher.  For the sake of souls Wesley was willing to change the norm and engage in a practice that even he disliked.  He commented, “to this day field preaching is a cross to me, but I know my commission and see no other way of preaching the gospel to every creature”.

As Methodism took root in Great Britain, Wesley was faced with a growing number of societies that had no ordained preacher. His solution was to create a band of itinerant laymen to serve them.  In answering a necessity by innovation, he formed one of the great features of Methodism that was, without doubt, pivotal to its success.  Mind you, his decision to break with tradition and do something different brought disfavor and persecution from the Anglican Church.  Furthermore, Wesley’s approach to spiritual formation through the class and band meetings was not only innovative but also highly effective – so much so that it still serves as the model for small group ministries today.

When Methodism came to America, Francis Asbury was commissioned by Wesley to “offer Christ” to all the people of this new frontier.  To reach such a sparse population in a vast untamed wilderness seemed impossible. But Francis Asbury created a small army of saddlebag preachers whose horseback mobility enabled them to evangelize and disciple every soul whether they lived in the largest settlement or the most remote wilderness cabin.  The Circuit Rider became a model of innovation that grew the American Methodist church from fewer than 15,000 members, 43 circuits, and 83 itinerants in 1784 to a denomination of 1,069,000 members, 4,000 circuit riders, and more than 7,000 local preachers by 1844.

Methodism’s willingness to be innovative helped them to capitalize on the novel idea of campmeetings.  Started by the Presbyterians as sacramental meetings, the Methodists took them over and made them a “battleaxe and weapon of war” to reach lost souls for almost a century.  When the campmeeting ceased to draw large crowds of sinners, the Methodists used them to promote the message of holiness among believers for another half century.  The National Campmeeting Association for the Promotion of Holiness swept the country impacting every branch of Methodism as well as many Congregationalists, Presbyterians and Baptists. Thousands were brought into an experience of heart holiness.  This happened because leadership was willing to shift gears and capitalize on the hunger for something deeper in the religious culture of the day.

Spirit filled saints have always been innovative and open to change.  Charles Finney was criticized for “new innovations” because in his protracted meetings he used the “anxious seat and mourners bench” to revive the church and evangelize the lost.  D.L. Moody used his organizing genius and Billy Sunday his dynamic preaching style to attract thousands to their evangelistic rallies. Even the Sunday School was an innovative idea, looked upon with skepticism by the established church, but eventually embraced and institutionalized.  It became an effective means of catechizing believers as well as serving as an entry point for unchurched people.

Martin Wells Knapp and others used small cheap booklets, lithograph preaching diagrams and the magic lantern (a forerunner of the slide projector) to captivate the mind and win the battle for souls. Meredith Standley was consumed with a passion to reach the lost and saw an opportunity to mobilize an army of “Gods Issues” at the close of WWII.  The GI Bill brought veterans to campus and the large surplus of army jeeps and trailers provided the necessary equipment to start the “GI’s of the Cross.” This unique means of outreach enlisted hundreds in its ranks and was responsible for the conversion of souls in numerous small towns across America. A willingness to ride the wave of present opportunity, to adopt new technology or to try something different has been crucial to finding many new and effective methods for winning souls to Christ.

Yet today, the sons and daughters of these innovative saints have retreated into our fortresses and pulled up our drawbridges in an attempt to avoid change and innovation of any sort.  It’s so bad in some places that to even suggest a new idea brings considerable pain to the powers that be!  Why?  Resistance to change is natural. There is a natural tendency to hold on to the things of the past.  The older one gets, the more one tends to cling to the familiar, comfortable and predictable ways of “happier days” gone by.  Resistance to change is especially true for religious institutions.  It can even be a good thing if it prevents a group from being swept up in every passing fade or infected by doctrinal heresy. And many of the cultural changes we see bring deeper depravity and greater evil. But we too often refuse to do the hard work of distinguishing between good change and bad change. Such a refusal to evaluate and accept – even embrace – appropriate and reasonable change leads only to a closed system which stifles new ideas and new life.  Someone has said that the only two kinds of people you need to fear are those who want to change everything and those who want to change nothing.

So every church should face the difficult question of what must and must not change. Every church has to do the difficult and fragile work of understanding change, learning to live with it and developing ways to use it to their advantage in ministry.  Appropriate change must and can be made safely if a church takes the time to develop a theology of change.  A theology of change is a well designed process that leads change in an orderly, healthy and appropriate way. A good theology of change consists of at least four elements.

 1.  A Theology of Change first establishes what is unchangeable.

 A theology of change cannot be developed in a vacuum; it requires context.  The mission and core values of the church provide that context. A clear, concise statement that defines what the church is supposed to be doing has to be in place and understood before one can talk about change.  Change cannot begin until one knows exactly what it is one cannot change.  The mission of the church has been laid out in holy orders by Christ Himself.  In brief, terse terms the Church is to “make and mature disciples.”  Any attempt to make the purpose of the church anything else is treason! A clear mission statement allows us to reevaluate our actions and priorities to make sure they are subservient to the mission. If they are not, then change begins with our actions and priorities. But the mission of the church is unchangeable.

Core values are the church’s shared Biblical convictions and beliefs. They feed the passion and drive the action of the church’s mission. They represent the conscience and collective soul of the church because they express the church’s most deeply held values. It is impossible for a church to do ministry that matters until it knows what really matters.  A church that doesn’t have a clear set of core values is like a river without banks. It will run in every direction and miss the opportunity to advance its cause with whitewater speed and precision.  Core values aligned with scripture are also unchangeable.

Wesley could make significant changes to the status quo of institutionalized religion without compromising the faith or grieving the Spirit that was blessing his efforts because he understood both the mission and the core values of the church. Understanding both is crucial for making changes today. The most effective churches or church movements are those who have a clear mission and a set of core values that undergird and guide the implementation of that mission.  Change that ignores the church’s purpose and values causes the church to begin the sad journey of identity loss and ultimate death. Methodism provides an example of that in the late ninetieth century.  To fail in having a biblically centered mission with missional values is to waste your time, dissipate valuable resources and fail at being the church.  A theology of change insists first on a biblical mission and values.

 2. A Theology of Change helps us to understand the difference between Function, Form and Tradition

 A sound theology of change requires that we know the difference between the church’s Biblical mandates and her methods.  Stated another way, one must know the difference between function and form.  Aubrey Malphurs defines the functions of the church as the timeless, unchanging and nonnegotiable precepts that are based on Scripture and are mandates for all churches to pursue to accomplish their purpose.  Most would accept that the general functions of the Church include: preaching/teaching, fellowship, worship, evangelism and service.  All of these functions enable the church to fulfill her purpose of making and maturing disciples into the image of Christ. All are mandated and modeled in scripture.  To tamper with these is to tamper with our identity as a church. To leave them behind or lay them aside is to cease to be a church.

Forms, on the other hand, are the temporal and changing practices of the church that are based on culture or tradition.  They are methods that all churches are free to choose to accomplish their Biblically mandated functions. Forms tend to have a limited time of usefulness and by their very nature have to be replaced with new ones as contexts change.

Traditions are forms or practices that have been handed down from generation to generation and are seen as still effective in helping the church carry out her God given functions.  Traditions help to create a certain amount of identity, familiarity and continuity all of which are central to healthy worship.

Change can pose a problem in two opposite extremes: when forms are institutionalized and elevated to the place of functions or when functions are trivialized and demoted to the category of forms. A solid theology of change prevents this from happening and allows the church to be relevant to its day while being faithful to its scriptural mandates and values.  The church’s functions must never change, but forms or methods will and should change from time to time. The same is true with tradition.  Tradition cannot be elevated to the place of scripture, nor must it be perpetually embraced just because it has been around a long time and institutionalized.  Traditions and forms are valuable as long as they enable the church to fulfill its primary functions: if they no longer contribute to mission fulfillment, they lose their purpose and worth.

For instance, worship is a function of the church.  We can’t be a church and not worship.  Congregational singing is a traditional part of worship.  It would be very difficult to imagine a church where song was not a part of the worship experience.  But what and how we sing is a form or practice determined by propriety and preference. Our values require that what we sing be to the glory of God and to the spiritual edification of those present.  But whether we sing the words out of a hymn book or from a screen, while accompanied by a piano, or organ, or key board, or guitar, or sound track —these are not moral or functional issues, but matters of congregational or cultural preference. Whether the words we sing are Charles Wesley’s, Bill Gaither’s or Steve Green’s is not the real issue. The goal, the function, is to worship in Spirit and Truth.  The method or form we use is the one that helps us accomplish that goal best.

Another example of a form is the time when we worship. The time of a worship service is an issue to be decided in a manner that is best for the congregation.  For instance, the time that we traditionally worship in America is around 11:00 a.m. This time was set when America was mostly rural to accommodate farmers as well as give people time to reach the church by means of a horse and buggy.  Before the advent of indoor lighting, services were generally held only once on Sunday.  With the invention of electric lights, city churches started evening services to give people a more wholesome activity for their Sunday nights. The time of worship is not what is sacred or unchangeable – but meeting together for worship is!

Where we worship is negotiable as well.    A fundamental, unalterable part of worship is the fellowship and accountability of other believers.  But that doesn’t mean one has to worship in a large church equipped with a steeple and stained glass. One can worship in a store front, a house church or a warehouse with none of the typical aesthetics of a church.  Nor does it mean that I must be surrounded by a multitude of people.  It some cases two or three believers meet in a home and worship with distant congregations by means of internet streaming in order to have acceptable doctrinal teaching and preaching. Whether we worship while sitting in a pew or a chair, are taught by a pastor who stands behind an ornate pulpit or a simple music stand and fellowship with other believers in a building that looks like a cathedral or a warehouse all makes no difference whatsoever.  The forms, props and methods are only as valuable as they aid us in fulfilling the great mandates of the church.  Idolaters worship forms – saints worship God!

3. A Theology of Change doesn’t fixate on the present and ignore the past.

Some are so anxious to change the present that they ignore the valuable contributions and warnings from earlier generations.  When this happens a repetition of past failures and old heresies is likely.  History is a treasure trove of insights and answers for the problems we face today. Real change for the future comes through a careful understanding of the past.

4.  A Theology of Change addresses the issue of cultural relevance with neither isolation nor accommodation.

 Isolationists believe incorrectly that the surrounding culture is inherently evil and that the church needs to stay as far away from it as possible.  Though it is true that our culture has many things that are rotten to the core, it is also true that our culture has many good things that are intrinsic to who we are.

Accommodation is the opposite extreme from isolation. It wants to fully embrace or adopt our culture. Accommodation has both a liberal and conservative side. The liberal side believes that the present culture is a friend of the gospel and we must accommodate its extreme views of evolution, homosexuality and abortion. The liberals lean over so far to speak to the present culture that they fall in bed with them and end up denying the faith.  The conservative side of accommodation argues that God endorses a particular culture as distinctly Christian.  The Amish are an example of this.  They believe that God endorses the culture of the 1800’s so they model the culture of that day.  Other Christians believe that God only endorses Western culture within their particular religious context. This is primarily seen in the exportation of Western ways in missionary enterprise.

A good theology of change recognizes the need to have enough cultural relevance so as to communicate the gospel to the age it seeks to win.  Cultural relevance is not found in succumbing blindly to worldly practices, but it is found in understanding a culture well enough to articulate the gospel in a way understandable to the people of that culture.

Change is a constant.  Resistance to change is also a constant.  As Christians, we need to seek the wisdom from above that allows us to lead the church through the changes that do and will come without succumbing to the extremes of changing everything or changing nothing. Positive change is what the church is about.  We seek to change lives by the two greatest changes agents known to man: God’s Word and Grace.  A theology of change will keep us from tampering with the mission, values and functions of the church.  But it will allow us freedom to use whatever forms we believe necessary and helpful in fulfilling our role as the Body of Christ on earth.